How to be the "Cool Guy" in HOT situations.





Be in control of your temper.

It’s a sign of weakness.  When you’re a kid, and you’d see someone get angry and it would make you afraid and to some; it almost gives you extra power.

But having rage and making people scared is not strength, it’s weakness.  Now, when you see someone in control as an adult it allows you to take pride when you see someone “keeping their cool” no matter what’s happening, I wanna be that guy.

Pre-indicators like having breathing, flaring your nostrils, head shaking, increasing the columns in your voice....that’s when you detach and not allow it.

Get through moments in life in control when you need to rage and find the calculated moves (like counting to 10) that will keep you in control to move through getting angry and become the better person (that keeps their cool) that makes you the person that people wish they could be more like.

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